Fr. Gerald Murray: Homily at the Funeral of Bernard N. Nathanson, M.D.

Bernard Nathanson MDI first heard Dr. Bernard Nathanson speak over 25 years ago. I was very young and had just read his book “Aborting America.” There were probably not more than twenty people crowded into a room to hear this man who was one of the three founding members of the National Abortion Rights Action League (NARAL) describe the massive public relations campaign they undertook, successfully as it turned out, to overturn the cultural attitudes against abortion. All the shibboleths of the pro-choice cause, from the count of women who died from illegal abortions (the number was pulled out of thin air, Nathanson wrote), to the argument that the opposition to abortion is a “religious” issue came out of their early meetings.

Nathason wrote that he had performed over 75,000 abortions when doubts began to surface about whether or not the fetus (Latin: little one) was indeed an inert clump of cells. Neo-natal medicine was advancing at the time and Nathanson, when taking a hard look at life in the womb, changed his mind. He swore off his former allegiances, stopped performing abortions, and became a pro-lifer.

When I saw him he still referred himself as a “Jewish atheist.” I recall that he was quite clear in his explanation that he became a pro-lifer because the scientific evidence for life was indisputable. That surprised me at the time because I assumed that his moral awakening must have had a religious dimension. It didn’t, not at the time anyway, so I learned something new too.

I recall wondering that if he was honest that abortion killed a human being (his words, not mine), how would he reconcile himself to the fact he took over 75,000? Years later I found out that this question deeply haunted him. He eventually found reconciliation with God through the Catholic Church in 1996. From his biography:

Nathanson grew up Jewish and for more than ten years after he became pro-life he described himself as a “Jewish atheist”. In 1996 he converted to Roman Catholicism through the efforts of an Opus Dei priest, Rev. C. John McCloskey. In December 1996, Nathanson was baptized by Cardinal John O’Connor in a private Mass with a group of friends in New York’s St. Patrick’s Cathedral. He also received Confirmation and first Communion from the cardinal. He cited that “no religion matches the special role for forgiveness that is afforded by the Catholic Church” when asked why he converted to Roman Catholicism.

Robert P. George gave the eulogy at his funeral last week (reprinted below). George remarked on Nathanson’s brutal self-honesty, a characteristic I too saw years ago when first I heard him speak. George’s reflection confirms the memory I have of the man. May his memory be eternal.

Abortion is still a very contentious issue. There’s a reason for this. All the dehumanizing trends that those of us who hold a high value of human life fight against in our culture begins with abortion. If we don’t value the life of the unborn, all of human life will eventually be devalued. These trends have a logic, a natural cultural trajectory. That’s why we cannot let down our guard.

A person who used to understand this was Frank Schaeffer. I heard Frank and his father Francis Schaeffer speak too years ago when they set out to warn America of the dehumanizing trends that would be unleashed if we devalued life in the womb. I was a college student, and a friend and I founded the first pro-life student group at the University of Minnesota, a very liberal institution with the only accredited feminist studies program in the nation at the time. No need to say they protested against us at every turn, especially when we sponsored a “Pro-Life Week” where Frank’s father Francis was the highlighted speaker. Francis was dying of cancer at Mayo Hospital in Rochester, MN at the time but still came up to Minneapolis speak at our event.

People get weary. I understand that. But the scripture also says “Be not weary in well doing” and standing against the dehumanization of persons is certainly “well doing.” Frank needs to remember this. So do so some our our Church leaders. People can disagree on the politics of the fight, but any definition of human life that accommodates dehumanization must be called out and resisted. That is one reason for the criticism of Constantinople’s lukewarm stand toward the unborn on this blog (see: A patriarch who ‘generally speaking, respects human life).

The devaluation of human life is the central issue of our time. Nathanson came to understand this. Pope John Paul II did as well as does Pope Benedict. The Catholics have been the strongest leaders in defending life although in recent years the Orthodox Church has been speaking with increasing clarity particularly Patriarch Kyrill and Metropolitan Hilarion.

Metropolitan Jonah understands the stakes too. He is one of the clearest voices on the sanctity of human life among Orthodox leaders in America today. Keep this in mind during all the discussions about the present troubles in the OCA. It is a very important consideration.

See also: Newspaper Blackout of Dr. Nathanson’s Funeral.

Source: Coming Home | Fr. Gerald Murray

Your Excellency, Timothy M. Dolan, Archbishop of New York, how pleasing it is to us all that you are offering this requiem Mass for the soul of Dr. Bernard Nathanson in the Cathedral where he was baptized, confirmed and received his First Holy Communion in December of 1996. Your telephone call from Rome to Dr. Nathanson just weeks before his death was a source of strength and encouragement to him in his final suffering.

Reverend Fathers, especially Fr. C. John McCloskey, who prepared Dr. Nathanson for baptism and was his spiritual mentor; Dear Religious Sisters, in particular the Sisters of Life, who loved Dr. Nathanson so much; both you and Dr. Nathanson are the children in Christ of that stalwart defender of life who is your common spiritual father, John Cardinal O’Connor.

Dear Christine, Dr. Nathanson’s devoted wife; Dear Joseph his son, and all the members of Dr. Nathanson’s family, and all those who assisted him in his illness.

We are joined today at this funeral Mass by a great cloud of witnesses to commend to God’s mercy this faithful and courageous servant of the Lord, Dr. Bernard Nathanson. Our congregation this morning is made up of so many who knew and admired the man we entrust today to our loving God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Here also present are those who knew him from afar by virtue of his untiring efforts to promote respect for life through his writings, his speeches and especially through his two powerful films, The Silent Scream and The Eclipse of Reason.

Here present in spirit are also those two priests, great friends of Dr. Nathanson, to whom he dedicated his book, The Hand of God: Fr. Paul Marx, O.S.B. and Fr. Richard John Neuhaus, true heroes of the movement to end legalized abortion in our country and throughout the world.

The prophet Isaiah proclaims this hope filled message in our first reading today: “Those whom the LORD has ransomed will return and enter Zion singing, crowned with everlasting joy; they will meet with joy and gladness, sorrow and mourning will flee” (Is 35:10)

The everlasting joy of Heaven is our hope. We long for the joy and gladness promised to those whom the Lord has ransomed. Dr. Nathanson for years longed for that joy and gladness. He found it in Christ.

In his book, Dr. Nathanson wrote of his medical school professor and fellow Jewish convert to Catholicism, Karl Stern: “…he possessed a secret I had been searching for all my life – the secret of the peace of Christ” (p. 46) After years of deep involvement in what he called “the satanic world of abortion” (p. 58), Dr. Nathanson came to believe in Christ. He lived with Christ crucified and resurrected for the last 14 years of his life on earth. He experienced great peace upon becoming a Christian.

St. Paul exhorts us today in our second reading: “[L]et the peace of Christ control your hearts, the peace into which you were also called in one body.” (Col 3:15) Dr. Nathanson heard and answered that call. He knew great peace in the Catholic Church after years of much trouble and despair. We pray today that he enter into the fullness of that peace in the land of the living.

I am not exaggerating when I say that Dr. Bernard Nathanson is a towering figure in the history of the United States because he was an unflinching witness on behalf of those millions who have been killed, or are threatened to be killed, by abortion. He was a witness who spoke out against what he himself had helped to bring about, namely the legalization of abortion in our country, along with his fellow founders of NARAL, the National Association for the Repeal of Abortion Laws.

He broke with this evil movement, and repented of his sins. His epiphany came when he saw ultrasound images of the developing human being in the womb. He wrote: “Ultrasound opened up a new world. For the first time we could really see the human fetus, measure it, observe it, watch it, and indeed bond with it and love it. I began to do that.” (p. 125) He continued “Having looked at the ultrasound, I could no longer go on as before” (p. 128)

Dr. Nathanson followed the truth where it led him. He wrote: “After my exposure to ultrasound, I began to rethink the prenatal phase of life. … When I began to study fetology, it dawned on me, finally, that the prenatal nine months are just another band in the spectrum of life. … To disrupt or abort a life at this point is intolerable – it is a crime. I don’t make any bones about using that word: Abortion is a crime.” (p. 130)

Msgr. William Smith is another great hero of the pro-life movement whose passing we still mourn. He never tired of repeating this axiom: “Social engineering is always preceded by verbal engineering.” Dr. Nathanson and Msgr. Smith were champions in the never-ending struggle here below to prevent the ideological corruption of language. That is a Godly struggle. May we take up where they have left off.

Dr. Nathanson reminds me of another great witness against evil and in favor of the truth in the twentieth century, Whittaker Chambers. I read somewhere that Betty Friedan thought the same thing, but I am sure for different reasons.

Chambers renounced his membership in the Communist party and spoke out against those who were part of a conspiracy to harm our nation through espionage for the Soviet Union. He confessed to being a Soviet spy. He was vilified. He suffered. He stood firm. He spoke the truth.

The introduction to his book Witness is a “Foreword in the Form of a Letter to My Children.” This quotation from the foreword captures Dr. Nathanson’s courageous witness on behalf of innocent human beings menaced by abortion: “A man is not primarily a witness against something. That is only incidental to the fact that he is a witness for something. A witness, in the sense that I am using the word, is a man whose life and faith are so completely one that when the challenge comes to step out and testify for his faith, he does so, disregarding all risks, accepting all consequences.” (p. 5)

Dr. Bernard Nathanson was a fearless advocate of the self-evident truth that it is a grave injustice to kill people before they are born. The unjust decisions of the United States Supreme Court in Roe v. Wade and Doe v. Bolton mandating legalized abortion in our country cry out for the counter-witness of those who will not abide this injustice. Heroism is called for. True heroism is never easy and is only possible through God’s grace. We acknowledge today our gratitude to a true hero who would not abide such grave injustice in our land. In doing so, we too recognize the Hand of God in the life of Dr. Nathanson.

Chambers wrote of himself in that foreword to his book: “But a man may also be an involuntary witness. I do not know any way to explain why God’s grace touches a man who seems unworthy of it. But neither do I know any other way to explain how a man like myself – tarnished by life, unprepossessing, not brave – could prevail so far against the powers of the world arrayed almost solidly against him, to destroy him and defeat his truth. In this sense, I am an involuntary witness to God’s grace and to the fortifying power of faith.” (p. 6)

Only God knows whether Dr. Nathanson was a voluntary or involuntary witness against abortion and for life. But it is clear that he was truly courageous. He rejected what he knew to be evil, and then spoke out. In his humility he, like Chambers, recognized that God’s grace is made ever more manifest when He chooses unexpected apostles.

Chambers tells a haunting story in his book which gives us, I think, an insight into Dr. Nathanson’s rejection of abortion. He writes: “The daughter of a former German diplomat in Moscow was trying to explain to me why her father, who, as an enlightened modern man had been extremely pro-Communist, had become an implacable anti-Communist. But she loved her father and the irrationality of his defection embarrassed her. ‘He was immensely pro-Soviet,’ she said, ‘and then –you will laugh at me – but you must not laugh at my father – and then- one night – in Moscow he heard screams. That’s all. Simply one night he heard screams.’

“A child of Reason and the 20th century, she knew that there is a logic of the mind. She did not know that the soul has a logic that may be more compelling than the mind’s. She did not know at all that she had swept away the logic of the mind, the logic of history, the logic of politics, the myth of the 20th century, with five annihilating words: one night he heard screams.”(pp. 13-14)

The scream Dr. Nathanson heard was a silent scream. A silent scream uttered by an unseen victim; that is, until the ultrasound machine brought the truth of abortion into plain view for this medical doctor who had expended great effort to make this horror legal and widespread in America. That doctor thereafter boldly decided to make the reality of human life in the womb visible for the whole world to see. Dr. Nathanson wrote in his book: “By 1984, however, I had begun to ask myself more questions about abortion: What actually goes on in an abortion? … so in 1984 I said to a friend of mine, who was doing fifteen or maybe twenty abortions a day, ‘Look, do me a favor, Jay. Next Saturday, when you are doing all these abortions, put an ultrasound device on the mother and tape it for me.’ He did, and when he looked at the tapes with me in an editing studio, he was so affected that he never did another abortion. I, though I had not done an abortion in five years, was shaken to the very roots of my soul by what I saw.” (pp. 140-141)

Anyone who has seen The Silent Scream (see below) is shaken. Seeing the truth about abortion overthrows the lies and deceptions of the abortion lobby. An important way that we can honor the memory of Dr. Bernard Nathanson is to continue his work of making the truth known to anyone who is willing to listen to our message, and then to discover what pregnancy really is by looking at ultrasound images of a pre-born human being.

The psalmist tells us: “Cast your burden on the Lord and he will sustain you.” (Ps 55:22) For the past two years it was my privilege to bring the consolation of the sacraments to Dr. Nathanson at his home. His devout reception of the Holy Eucharist revealed to me a man truly in love with Jesus Christ. The Lord indeed was sustaining his son who had cast his heavy burden of past evils on the Lord. “Come to me, all you who labor and are burdened and I will give you rest” (Mt 11:15-16) says the Lord in today’s Gospel. The rest, the peace of soul that Christ gives begins in this life and passes through the Cross and then into eternity. All the while God guides and strengthens us, if only we let him.

Whittaker Chambers ended his Letter to My Children in this way: “My children, when you were little, we used sometimes to go for walks in our pine woods. In the open fields, you would run along by yourselves. But you used instinctively to give me your hands as we entered those woods, where it was darker, lonelier, and in the stillness our voices sounded loud and frightening. In this book I am again giving you my hands. I am leading you, not through cool pine woods, but up and up a narrow defile between bare and steep rocks from which in shadow things uncoil and slither away. It will be dark. But, in the end, if I have led you aright, you will make out three crosses, from two of which hang thieves. I will have brought you to Golgotha – the place of skulls. This is the meaning of the journey. Before you understand, I may not be there, my hands may have slipped away from yours. It will not matter. For when you understand what you see, you will no longer be children. You will know that life is pain, that each of us hangs upon the cross of himself. And when you know that this is true of every man, woman and child on earth, you will be wise. Your Father.”

Our life indeed is meant to be lived in intimate union with the crucified Lord. Golgotha, Calvary is indeed the place where we learn to be wise. The pain we experience, if united to Christ’s pain, is then understood to be a blessing that opens our hearts to the only Love that can take away that pain. That Love is Christ, and the gift of eternal life wipes away all pain and suffering. To live and to die in hopeful expectation of that redemption is God’s great gift to us fallen creatures here below. That gift was joyfully received by Dr. Nathanson in this very Cathedral 14 years ago.

Today we pray that the fullness of joy, which is the blessed vision of God seen face to face, be given to his son and our brother, Bernard Nathanson.

Requiem aeternam dona ei, Domine. Et lux perpetua luceat ei. Amen.

This is the film “The Silent Scream” narrated by Dr. Nathanson that began to turn the cultural tide against abortion.

Parts 2-5 can be found on Youtube.


  1. I’m honored that my blog was used as the source for the homily at Dr. Nathanson’s funeral. However, as I report on the blog, it was Father Gerald Murray who delivered the homily at the request of the family. I’m not sure where Dr. George enters the picture in all of this.

    God Bless

  2. Fr. Johannes Jacobse :

    Oops. Not sure how that happened either. Thanks for the correction Mr. Nadal.

  3. Pope Kyrill? For a minute I thought I stepped into an alternate universe where the events in The Shoes of the Fisherman were real. 🙂 Seriously, this is a fascinating article. I was aware of who Dr. Nathanson was but had no idea that he repented and converted. What a lesson for all of us in this season of repentance and forgiveness.

  4. Fr. Johannes Jacobse :

    Geez, second mistake! Thanks for the catch. I need a proof-reader.

    I posted this on my laptop at a coffee shop yesterday. It’s always more of an ordeal posting things on the laptop. In the middle of posting I set up the internet connection for another customer, she bought me a cup of coffee (Super-Premium) as a thank-you. That was after I already had a medium. Wasn’t too smart on my end since I buzzed out and didn’t go to bed until 2am. Maybe that explains the mistakes. 🙂

  5. Geo Michalopulos :

    No worries, Fr. It’s a small one in the grand scheme of things.

  6. I feel that at least with regard to the pro-life movement in the U.S., the passing of Dr. Nathanson would approach, perhaps even exceed in profoundness, the passing of say even Father Pavone (When his time comes, of course). Still, when he passed away, it seemed as if his passing was obscured by a myriad of other “pro-life issues,” not to mention world news and a scandal here and there.
    Correct me if I’m wrong, but I’ve looked and looked. Still I’ve found no Youtube or any other web source for viewing his funeral Mass Sermon, or other talks given in his honor. Ya know, it’s almost as if the corrupt USCCB may have put the kibosh on getting the word out too much about this giant of a man and his contributions to the Culture of Life. I’ve said on occasions that Norma McCorvey is the “Mother Teresa of the Pro-life movement.” If that’s anywhere close to being true, surely Dr. Nathanson was an “Apostle Paul,” especially pertinent to his upbringing and conversion.

  7. The above comment concerned audio or video recordings over the Internet so as to hear the full inflection of voice, and with video too, even body language which says more than can be conveyed on the printed page. Written text? Of course, it’s the stuff that historical documentation is made of, though future generations will also look back to the audio and video documentation which appears non-existent, or at least “hidden,” so if someone knows where it is, kindly make it known.

    However, as eluded to in the post above it seems almost as if “by design” that Youtube and audio sources were not instantly available, not to mention that this monumental passing received wide coverage only to those within driving range, and some of them may not have heard until days or weeks after his passing. Maybe 6 months or a year from now the Archdiocese will “release” video and audio footage, “for posterity,” but “too little and too late” for thaaa “sheeple in the Nave.”

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